Where do I access universal options for 3.5mm port?

Use to be when I plugged in a 3.5mm device into universal jack, a options box appeared allowing me to choose what device I just plugged in. Once before I checked the box not to ask me again (that was a mistake); and only after refreshing my computer did the box reappear (so I never checked that box again); now the options box is gone again and I don't know where to change options for the 3.5mm jack, have looked everywhere I could think of; anyone know how to access this magic box?